Removing those jokes is a bit of a sacrifice but, but dare I say prioritizing your emotional intelligence over your logical intelligence can at times feel like a compromise but it does pay off. You were right to pay off not. It was not the best choice of words for this particular. I'm not; I'm not perfect. I'm not, I'm not perfect, but I am trying, and you know what I should have led with that. I am by no means perfect. I am also not telling you what to do. I mean, my second child is the result of unprotected makeup, sex in a hot tub in the Hawaiian islands. I am in no position to give advice. Hand to God. I can't do it.