All I can do is share my experience with you.
My husband always says, if you see someone who has what you want, ask them how they got it.
Unfortunately, Beyonce has yet to reply to my emails, so I don't have all the answers yet, but she will like, don't worry.
She's definitely going to, so I'm pretty sure I say this because if there is anything about my life that seems even slightly aspirational, hopefully, some of this will be helpful to you.
And if not, feel free to slowly pull the flask hiding in your underwear out and just have it.
I'm not your mom.
You know what I mean? It's if it's not hurting anyone, great.
Get yours, and you know what, maybe share some with your neighbors.
Now the tricky thing about finding someone who has what you want is it; you also have to know what you want.
Right? So that seems simple enough, but it's actually very hard because our brains are arrogant assholes.